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Valley

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Valley
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Time comes in your life when you finally get it…when, in the midst of all your fears and insanity, you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out…ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying and blaming and struggling to hold on. Then, like a child quieting down after a tantrum, you blink back your tears and begin to look at the world through new eyes. This is your awakening. You realize it’s time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change, or for happiness, safety and security to magically appear over the next horizon. You realize that in the real world there aren’t always fairy tale endings, and that any guarantee of “happily ever after” must begin with you…and in the process a sense of serenity is born of acceptance. You awaken to the fact that you are not perfect and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what you are…and that’s OK. They are entitled to their own views and opinions. You learn the importance of loving and championing yourself…and in the process a sense of new found confidence is born of self-approval. Your stop complaining and blaming other people for the things they did to you – or didn’t do for you – and you learn that the only thing you can really count on is the unexpected. You learn that people don’t always say what they mean or mean what they say and that not everyone will always be there for you and everything isn’t always about you. So, you learn to stand on your own and to take care of yourself…and in the process a sense of safety and security is born of self-reliance. You stop judging and pointing fingers and you begin to accept people as they are and to overlook their shortcomings and human frailties…and in the process a sense of peace and contentment is born of forgiveness. You learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view. You begin reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really stand for. You learn the difference between wanting and needing and you begin to discard the doctrines and values you’ve outgrown, or should never have bought into to begin with. You learn that there is power and glory in creating and contributing and you stop maneuvering through life merely as a “consumer” looking for you next fix. You learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not the outdated ideals of a bygone era, but the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life. You learn that you don’t know everything, it’s not you job to save the world and that you can’t teach a pig to sing. You learn the only cross to bear is the one you choose to carry and that martyrs get burned at the stake. Then you learn about love. You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would have them be. You learn that alone does not mean lonely. You stop trying to control people, situations and outcomes. You learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO. You also stop working so hard at putting your feelings aside, smoothing things over and ignoring your needs. You learn that your body really is your temple. You begin to care for it and treat it with respect. You begin to eat a balanced diet, drinking more water, and take more time to exercise. You learn that being tired fuels doubt, fear, and uncertainty and so you take more time to rest. And, just food fuels the body, laughter fuels our soul. So you take more time to laugh and to play. You learn that, for the most part, you get in life what you deserve, and that much of life truly is a self-fulfilling prophecy. You learn that anything worth achieving is worth working for and that wishing for something to happen is different than working toward making it happen. More importantly, you learn that in order to achieve success you need direction, discipline and perseverance. You learn that no one can do it all alone, and that it’s OK to risk asking for help. You learn the only thing you must truly fear is fear itself. You learn to step right into and through your fears because you know that whatever happens you can handle it and to give in to fear is to give away the right to live life on your own terms. You learn to fight for your life and not to squander it living under a cloud of impending doom. You learn that life isn’t always fair, you don’t always get what you think you deserve and that sometimes bad things happen to unsuspecting, good people…and you learn not to always take it personally. You learn that nobody’s punishing you and everything isn’t always somebody’s fault. It’s just life happening. You learn to admit when you are wrong and to build bridges instead of walls. You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy and resentment must be understood and redirected or they will suffocate the life out of you and poison the universe that surrounds you. You learn to be thankful and to take comfort in many of the simple things we take for granted, things that millions of people upon the earth can only dream about: a full refrigerator, clean running water, a soft warm bed, a long hot shower. Then, you begin to take responsibility for yourself by yourself and you make yourself a promise to never betray yourself and to never, ever settle for less than you heart’s desire. You make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting, and to stay open to every wonderful possibility. You hang a wind chime outside your window so you can listen to the wind. Finally, with courage in you heart, you take a stand, you take a deep breath, and you begin to design the life you want to live as best as you can."
Clan
Voxenvale

Activity

  • Lucas The Spider
    Hai gurl :o You need to play CC more ;-;
    August 6
  • Rip
    July 27
  • Lucas The Spider
    Will I ever get pictures of the spiders? :Q:
    July 8
    • lucaaa795
      lucaaa795
      spider nudes
    • Lucas The Spider
      Lucas The Spider
      Aren't all spider pictures technically nudes tho xD
    • lucaaa795
      lucaaa795
      mindblown facts
    • Lucas The Spider
      Lucas The Spider
      I love mind-blowing facts!
    • Valley
      Valley
      What spiders
    • Lucas The Spider
      Lucas The Spider
      The spiders which invade your house!
    • Valley
      Valley
      o I put them outside
    • Lucas The Spider
      Lucas The Spider
      Soo no pictures? Also I'm happy you put them outside, can't have spider murderers around here
    • soap BAR
      soap BAR
      top 10 questions science is still trying to figure out
    • pious
      pious
      The exception to Spider Nudes: https://i.pinimg.com/736x/51/bf/3f/51bf3f14bdb0672a9d6dabe58a8cbf2d.jpg
  • Pickles2001
    Well I learned a lot from this long story on this prifile page XD
    June 24
    • Valley
      Valley
      Valley the inspirational talker at your service :D
    • Lucas The Spider
      Lucas The Spider
      Hmm. I just saw more than 10 words and thought it was too much for me.
    • Valley
      Valley
      Reading is good for you, silly spoider
    • Lucas The Spider
      Lucas The Spider
      Reading the forums is, yes
    • Valley
      Valley
      My very long hobby is apart of the forums, thankyou very much
    • Lucas The Spider
      Lucas The Spider
      True, maybe you could vc me one day and read it to me :O I Jk, I'll read it later
    • MarieAra
      MarieAra
      NO >:c
    • Lucas The Spider
      Lucas The Spider
      Oh, nvm, sorry Valley xD she has spoken
    • Valley
      Valley
      XD
  • ragean
    Pickles I read about 1 sentence and gave up.
    June 27
  • Lucas The Spider
    Hi gurl :O we must whisper before she notices me here! :O
    June 23
    • Valley
      Valley
      I see u
      lol you used italics for ‘she’ just to clarify.. but maybe I am a boy, you never know heheh
    • Lucas The Spider
      Lucas The Spider
      I wasn't referring to you when I said 'she' but 'she' knows who 'she' is. Boy or girl, you're still amazing in my eyes
    • MarieAra
      MarieAra
      SHE IS HERE NOW
    • MarieAra
      MarieAra
      AND SHE IS ANGERY >:C
    • Valley
      Valley
      You’re using my wall to summon an angry Maria, not happy >:c
    • Lucas The Spider
      Lucas The Spider
      I didn't xD I just knew she'd come. Extremely predicable
    • Lucas The Spider
      Lucas The Spider
      Predictable
    • Lucas The Spider
      Lucas The Spider
      Idek anymore... Screw my spelling xD
    • MarieAra
      MarieAra
      She's still here, watching
    • SILVERPINK
      SILVERPINK
      She's always watching
    • lucaaa795
      lucaaa795
      BUSTED
    • DsBerrypaw
      DsBerrypaw
      That's.... Creepy...
  • Lucas The Spider
    -pokes- :O I poked a wild Valley! -runs-
    June 21
  • Pls pls pls pls pls pls pls pls lemme be drawn in Space’s events *prays to rainbow umbrella gods*
    June 19
    • flooks
      flooks
      Kneels on the floor *prays to the mighty space_fetus*
    • AJ BaRyza
      AJ BaRyza
      *bring holy mushroom* *prays to space_fetus*
  • “Oh my gosh, have you seen the new movie(?! or !?)”
    What comes first the question mark or the exclamation mark?
    June 16
    • lucaaa795
      lucaaa795
      Question mark because its a question at origins
    • Valley
      Valley
      Gg
  • gasp
    June 1
    • Lucas The Spider
      Lucas The Spider
      Gimme a H, gimme an A, gimme an L, gimme another L, gimme an E, gimme a Y! Hai gurl! Welcome back ^-^
    • MarieAra
      MarieAra
      I will slap your face, Penguin.
    • Lucas The Spider
      Lucas The Spider
      Wait, wait... What'd I do?
  • Is it just me or does anyone else check the forums only once or twice a week and when they do they go through the activity wall and recent discussions and comment on a bunch of stuff
    May 8
    • -greycoralking-
      -greycoralking-
      It is just you, all the cool kids stay ontop of the forums...what do you think you are to hipster for us? Pft....
    • -greycoralking-
      -greycoralking-
      Jk jk jk jk jk lolz Grey wubs you like a fat kid loves cake WHICH IS A LOT. *hugs*
    • Valley
      Valley
      Just saw this now lol I haven’t been active at all this past month, just trying to slide into the activity wall like >:)
    • iKONIC
      iKONIC
      Same Val same. Can't bother checking the forums every hour :v.
  • Valley changed their profile picture.
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    May 6
    • Valley
      Valley
      For some reason it kept saying failed to upload when it actually changed my profile sorry for the multiple changes lol
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    May 6
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    May 6
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    May 6
  • gameringboy
    LOL says tell about your hobbies * writes life story
    May 5
    • Aroe
      Aroe
      I love that her paragraph of inspiration written in her hobby section!

      Honestly, while I was reading it I got filled with a rare sense of self-love and acceptance.

      Made my day!
    • Valley
      Valley
      XD gamer
      Hehe you are welcome Aroe :)
      I just wanted to put something insiprirational so I just searched long quotes on the internet
    • Valley
      Valley
      Long beautiful quotes* or something like that anyway
  • What’s your story?
    ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
    April 26
    • Hrothgar
      Hrothgar
      Well, this one time in band camp...
    • Valley
      Valley
      Oh no
  • Life is a story. It is as majestical as my unicorn that lives in my backyard.
    April 12


  • October 2017
    • *JulieSings*
      *JulieSings*
      oml
    • Valley
      Valley
      hehe ^
    • IcyTamTam33$PUPPY
      IcyTamTam33$PUPPY
      I want to say it’s cute aaand scary?
    • Valley
      Valley
      I can't agree more ^
    • AJ BaRyza
      AJ BaRyza
      Lmao xD
    • The Death Reaper
      The Death Reaper
      =)
    • Valley
      Valley
      btw the photo size on phone may be to large but on larger devices such as pc and iPads should be fine
    • Miss Hades
      Miss Hades
      Oh my gosh!
    • 60thSnowyMonth
      60thSnowyMonth
      It's so creepy how they bounce around like that. I thought I finnally would recover from Calmmy Clams by now, But it got replaced by these monsters ;-;
    • HONEY BOMB
      HONEY BOMB
      :C
    • soap BAR
      soap BAR
      gross
    • soap BAR
      soap BAR
      That model reminds me of those stupid spikes things in Mario Odyssey that jump around
    • DexterTheFox
      DexterTheFox
      *has flashbacks of the first time he ever saw a spider in his house*
    • soap BAR
      soap BAR
      Oof
    • Croubict
      Croubict
      What is that? o.o
    • *JulieSings*
      *JulieSings*
      spiders
    • artz.frost
      artz.frost
      lord, help u s all
    • -NightTrap-
      -NightTrap-
      That is a qbee spider
    • [InSstep]
      [InSstep]
      =)
    • soap BAR
      soap BAR
      disgusting things
    • 'ForgetMeNot'
      'ForgetMeNot'
      Uhhhh.....
    • Rin Shiraku
      Rin Shiraku
      Now I'm scared of spiders O-O
    • Rin Shiraku
      Rin Shiraku
      they look like they can kill you in any second
    • Cub the Cubic
      Cub the Cubic
      Reminds me of Minecraft.
    • JackFury
      JackFury
      These things are honestly creepier than normal spiders.
    • soap BAR
      soap BAR
      Those things look disgusting
    • SilverDash
      SilverDash
      I kinda like how they look.
  • Cub the Cubic
    EHEHEHHEHE,WET'S OP DUCCCC?
    April 5
  • Valley changed their profile picture.
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    April 3
  • Valley changed their profile picture.
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    April 3
  • You just got pranked by the prank patrol
    April 1
  • Valley changed their profile picture.
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    March 28
  • Valley changed their profile picture.
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    March 22
    • Missilence
      Missilence
      :0000
    • Valley
      Valley
      ;000
    • Valley
      Valley
      Idk this isn’t gonna be here long I hope
    • Missilence
      Missilence
      do you like van gogh
    • Missilence
      Missilence
      oH WAit it's a mix of starry night and stranger things i see
  • Missilence
    How long are you gonna keep your profile picture the same? Cause I'll keep mine as long as you keep yours >:)
    March 20
    • Valley
      Valley
      Challenge accepted >:)
      Na, I was looking for photos to change it to but I have no ideas lol
    • Missilence
      Missilence
      I'll bet that you'll change yours first >:)
    • Valley
      Valley
      HmMMMmm
    • JackFury
      JackFury
      I have a suggestion: mayonnaise.
  • Boop
    March 21
  • Who's Easter pack hyped?!
    March 6
  • Valley changed their profile picture.
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    January 22
    • Valley
      Valley
      Inside joke
    • Missilence
      Missilence
      LMAO that's a good profile pic
    • Valley
      Valley
      so you are better than your drawings? >:)
    • Missilence
      Missilence
      i guess so