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valley

Just coz my wall needs a little bump

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Time comes in your life when you finally get it…when, in the midst of all your fears and insanity, you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out…ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying and blaming and struggling to hold on. Then, like a child quieting down after a tantrum, you blink back your tears and begin to look at the world through new eyes. This is your awakening. You realize it’s time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change, or for happiness, safety and security to magically appear over the next horizon. You realize that in the real world there aren’t always fairy tale endings, and that any guarantee of “happily ever after” must begin with you…and in the process a sense of serenity is born of acceptance. You awaken to the fact that you are not perfect and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what you are…and that’s OK. They are entitled to their own views and opinions. You learn the importance of loving and championing yourself…and in the process a sense of new found confidence is born of self-approval. Your stop complaining and blaming other people for the things they did to you – or didn’t do for you – and you learn that the only thing you can really count on is the unexpected. You learn that people don’t always say what they mean or mean what they say and that not everyone will always be there for you and everything isn’t always about you. So, you learn to stand on your own and to take care of yourself…and in the process a sense of safety and security is born of self-reliance. You stop judging and pointing fingers and you begin to accept people as they are and to overlook their shortcomings and human frailties…and in the process a sense of peace and contentment is born of forgiveness. You learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view. You begin reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really stand for. You learn the difference between wanting and needing and you begin to discard the doctrines and values you’ve outgrown, or should never have bought into to begin with. You learn that there is power and glory in creating and contributing and you stop maneuvering through life merely as a “consumer” looking for you next fix. You learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not the outdated ideals of a bygone era, but the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life. You learn that you don’t know everything, it’s not you job to save the world and that you can’t teach a pig to sing. You learn the only cross to bear is the one you choose to carry and that martyrs get burned at the stake. Then you learn about love. You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would have them be. You learn that alone does not mean lonely. You stop trying to control people, situations and outcomes. You learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO. You also stop working so hard at putting your feelings aside, smoothing things over and ignoring your needs. You learn that your body really is your temple. You begin to care for it and treat it with respect. You begin to eat a balanced diet, drinking more water, and take more time to exercise. You learn that being tired fuels doubt, fear, and uncertainty and so you take more time to rest. And, just food fuels the body, laughter fuels our soul. So you take more time to laugh and to play. You learn that, for the most part, you get in life what you deserve, and that much of life truly is a self-fulfilling prophecy. You learn that anything worth achieving is worth working for and that wishing for something to happen is different than working toward making it happen. More importantly, you learn that in order to achieve success you need direction, discipline and perseverance. You learn that no one can do it all alone, and that it’s OK to risk asking for help. You learn the only thing you must truly fear is fear itself. You learn to step right into and through your fears because you know that whatever happens you can handle it and to give in to fear is to give away the right to live life on your own terms. You learn to fight for your life and not to squander it living under a cloud of impending doom. You learn that life isn’t always fair, you don’t always get what you think you deserve and that sometimes bad things happen to unsuspecting, good people…and you learn not to always take it personally. You learn that nobody’s punishing you and everything isn’t always somebody’s fault. It’s just life happening. You learn to admit when you are wrong and to build bridges instead of walls. You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy and resentment must be understood and redirected or they will suffocate the life out of you and poison the universe that surrounds you. You learn to be thankful and to take comfort in many of the simple things we take for granted, things that millions of people upon the earth can only dream about: a full refrigerator, clean running water, a soft warm bed, a long hot shower. Then, you begin to take responsibility for yourself by yourself and you make yourself a promise to never betray yourself and to never, ever settle for less than you heart’s desire. You make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting, and to stay open to every wonderful possibility. You hang a wind chime outside your window so you can listen to the wind. Finally, with courage in you heart, you take a stand, you take a deep breath, and you begin to design the life you want to live as best as you can."
Clan
New World Order

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  • October 24
    • *JulieSings*
      *JulieSings*
      oml
    • valley
      valley
      hehe ^
    • IcyTamTam33$PUPPY
      IcyTamTam33$PUPPY
      I want to say it’s cute aaand scary?
    • valley
      valley
      I can't agree more ^
    • Aj BaRyza
      Aj BaRyza
      Lmao xD
    • The Death Reaper
      The Death Reaper
      =)
    • valley
      valley
      btw the photo size on phone may be to large but on larger devices such as pc and iPads should be fine
    • Miss Hades
      Miss Hades
      Oh my gosh!
    • 60thSnowyMonth
      60thSnowyMonth
      It's so creepy how they bounce around like that. I thought I finnally would recover from Calmmy Clams by now, But it got replaced by these monsters ;-;
    • HONEY BOMB
      HONEY BOMB
      :C
    • spookaloni
      spookaloni
      gross
    • spookaloni
      spookaloni
      That model reminds me of those stupid spikes things in Mario Odyssey that jump around
    • DexterTheFox
      DexterTheFox
      *has flashbacks of the first time he ever saw a spider in his house*
    • spookaloni
      spookaloni
      Oof
    • Croubict
      Croubict
      What is that? o.o
    • *JulieSings*
      *JulieSings*
      spiders
    • Artz.frost
      Artz.frost
      lord, help u s all
  • Just coz my wall needs a little bump
    December 6
  • Some people seek answers, but to get those answers people need to ask questions, questions lead to more questions and answers. People eventually get so tied up in all these questions and answers their original questions have been forgotten.
    October 21
  • Dear life,
    You have brought me joy but you have also put me in the toughest situations and this is why I've decided to be assertive and take control. I am no longer that sweet girl who begs for mercy, I am a beast who has emerged from the depths of my despair.
    Sincerely, your last words
    September 23
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    October 4
  • -Joystick-
    Don't forget to join The Cubic Squad! : https://discord.gg/hE6N2TD
    September 28
  • My nose is killing me, I'm sniffing eucalyptus 24/7 ugh
    September 9
  • _DaPerson_
    *insert noise* :P Hai!
    August 18
  • Q: Interested in how you lay out the date, Australians write it as "22/6/2017" = 22nd June 2017
    June 22
    • lucaaa795
      lucaaa795
      We do it same.
      I think americans write it like month/day/year
    • space_fetus
      space_fetus
      UK is day/month/year
    • valley
      valley
      Yeah I thought so, was just interested if anybody else besides Americans wrote it as month/day/year
    • Professional Killer
      Professional Killer
      Yep, dd/mm/yyyy as well in Greece.
    • *Snoopie*
      *Snoopie*
      year month day in Korea
    • Swissy Dreamer
      Swissy Dreamer
      DD/MM/YY in Indonesian
    • 'Sir.Fox'
      'Sir.Fox'
      I do MM/DD/YY :) I like in Usa
    • valley
      valley
      Oooo Snoopie year/month/day >:O
    • CharmBerryXO
      CharmBerryXO
      YY/MM/DD in China :) *Just a random person on your profile XD*
    •  gdog
      gdog
      All the info you need.
      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Date_format_by_country
    •  Ai
      Ai
      MM/DD/YY on usa ;-;
    • Blaked
      Blaked
      mexico is like that too, 22 June, 2017
    • JAXsepticeye
      JAXsepticeye
      that's how we do it in canada as well.... me learning american english as a kid then moving to canada founf it interesting people say "June 2nd" or "May 4th"
    • tobias7000
      tobias7000
      In czech, DD/MM/YY
  • Isn't it beautiful how you've learnt to grow flowers from the memories that died long ago.
    July 26
  • I silently brood, caught in a mess of thoughts that make me drift away to far away places. I don't want to come back to reality, but sometime it will come to an end.
    June 5
  • I ❤️ You
    May 30
  • I'm withdrawn from places where no one has been, I'm a wreck of emotions as time travels and memories fade, the tears well up in my eyes as the losses over me drift like cramped logs in a river. I'm trapped and no one can help me, except for the demons who posses my body.
    May 13